ritual
Ritual is necessary
for us to know anything. Ken Kesey
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| Metal Snowflake by trec_lit |
For the first time in several years, I was home for Christmas. With people I have known all my life. All a little older, a little grayer, a little wiser. I was navigating an in between time of being an adult but still being in the younger set. Balancing the responsibility of taking care of folks while still holding them up as elders vessels.
This year we had Christmas dinner together. When I was younger, we had breakfast together many years for Christmas. Probably because, there were more kids around then and we were anxious to open presents. I was sort of looking forward to falling back to that time but it didn’t happen exactly like that. Also no one put up a Christmas tree. That. Was. Weird. I was looking forward to seeing my grandmother’s brass 12 days of Christmas ornaments on a tree. I guess what I am saying is that Christmas was different this year, not bad, just different. My family is ushering a new era.
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Tags: cjm, community, Judaica, san francisco, Stanley Saitowitz
after dinner drinks
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| Tea Kung Fu Photo by Michael Camilleri |
After dinner, a cup of tea or coffee is always welcome. Consider this my after dinner post to wrap up this edition of the dinner series.
For the last couple of weeks, I have been writing about food and community, particularly focused around dinner. I had a lot of food related activities going on – hosting a party, construction of a restaurant,and exploring new food options in San Francisco. Of course it is also the season for enjoying really good food, hopefully, with family and friends.
One of the other reasons I have been thinking about writing about food and community is that I have several friends who are pursuing food ventures. It has been fascinating watching these people, who are all trained as designers, add something new to to their plates.
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Tags: community, designers, dinner, new york city, NOMA
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| Leland Avenue Street Fair Photo by VVBOOM |
Did you know that parties are important for communities?
I was recently reviewing a tool used to measure the health of the communities. One of the items measured is the number of block parties held in a neighborhood.
Not long after I came to San Francico I participated in the testing of the Healthy Development Measurement Tool. Yes, the name is a mouth-full, but it is to-the-point. Developed by the San Francisco Department of Health, the tool uses a number of metrics to determine if a development, as proposed, will contribute to or harm the health of a community. These types of tools, in the category of health impact assessments, have been getting more traction in communities, in the US and internationally, as residents try to quantify the expected and/or touted outcomes of new development. It gives community members a way evaluate projects in their neighborhood and compare with the rest of the city or even state or national averages.
I was looking through the tool recently and discovered that one of the metrics (called indicators in the tool) is “Number of neighborhood block party permits”. This indicator comes under the Social Cohesion portion (called elements) of the tool.
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Tags: community, dinner, san francisco, urban life
can i get dinner
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For the past two months, in the building I have helped shepherd through construction, we have been constructing a restaurant. It has been a vision for this particular location for almost 10 years, long before I started on the project. In other neighborhoods where commercial activity is already vibrant and non-stop, one small restaurant may not be a big deal. In fact, in some neighborhoods in San Francisco, when one business closes there are several others lining up to take their place. Yet in this place, this “food desert”, one restaurant is a big deal.
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Tags: bayview, community, dinner, san francisco, urban life
dinner with strangers
For it is only in company that eating is done justice; food must be divided and distributed if it is to be well received. Walter Benjamin
San Francisco is a food lovers gastronomic paradise. Although I haven’t proven the theory, I am sure you can get just about any kind of food in the city or at least within the nine county bay area. Plus there are chefs fusing food traditions making new creations so that diners get food from two, three or more cultures in one sitting. My daughter and I are always discovering new places to eat.
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hosting dinner
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| Mud Pie |
This year I decided to host a party for my birthday. I haven’t hosted an adult party at my house since I moved to San Francisco over five years ago. It is one of those things that can be nerve racking because you want to get it right – have the right amount food, have everyone enjoy themselves, and not be too exhausted after the whole thing.
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all you need is….food
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Fall is probably my favorite time of year. My birthday is in October. On the east coast the weather gets crisp and the leaves become golden and red. It leads into the time of gatherings usually centered around food. For me these gatherings are an important time to connect with my family and friends
So in honor of all the eating that will happen over the next few months, my next three posts will center on dinner and some of what it means for communities. Look for them over the next week.
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Tags: food, san francisco, urban life
false dichotomy
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| Girl Scouts holding a lizard (nature!) at camp Photo by K Williams |
A week ago my thoughts were all on green. Thursday I attended the Sustainable Industries Economic Forum. The gathering focused on the “Access Economy: an emerging economic development and business model that fosters less consuming, more sharing, and real-time customer feedback”. Saturday I attended the performance of red, black and GREEN: a blues (rbGb). The multimedia performance work that “examines environmental racism, social ecology and collective responsibility in an era of dramatic climate change.”
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Tags: community design, families, new york city, san francisco, urban life
blaze a trail
The following is a piece of a thread of Twitter chat I participated in a month ago.
@skibison: @NOMArchitects A2: Do you still really need to blaze ure own path? Have there not been enough examples to follow? #NOMAchat August 31, 2011, 12:43 am
@MelissaRDaniel: I wish I was tough like the pioneer women b4 me. But y should I struggle w/ same issues they did? @katherinerw @AIAWLS @AWAinLA #NOMAchat August 31, 2011, 12:44 am
@katherinerw: @skibison @NOMArchitects if u’r the only blk woman in your firm – YES! #nomachat August 31, 2011, 12:45 am
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growing
We’ve had bad luck with children; they’ve all grown up.
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One great thing about community is sharing over time – sharing meals together, sharing news on the street, sharing advice, sharing as you and your family grow. My daughter, an only child has benefited from a friend and neighbor sharing her clothes as she has grown over the past five years. This handing down has been great because my daughter gets barely worn stuff, that she likes, and I get to save some money and time by not having to shop for lots of clothes. This sharing thing was going great until this summer. My daughter has grown almost 6″ in the last year. It feels like it all happened this summer. Don’t get me started on her feet. Continue reading ‘growing’
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